Scam Message Checker

Romance Message scam checker

Romance scams build trust over time, then ask for money or push an investment. Check a message below.

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Common Romance Message scams

  • Emergencies that require you to send money fast
  • Refusal to meet in person or video call
  • Steering the relationship toward crypto investing
  • Requests to keep the relationship secret

Red flags on Romance Message

  • Strong feelings declared very quickly
  • A crisis that needs money urgently
  • Always an excuse not to meet or video call
  • Asking you to keep things secret from family

Safety tips

  • Never send money to someone you have not met in person.
  • Talk to a trusted friend or family member about the relationship.
  • Be cautious if the person avoids video calls.
  • Do not move money or crypto on someone else's advice.

Related scam types

Romance scamA scammer pretends to want a relationship to gain trust and then ask for money, gifts, or investment.Pig butchering scamA long-running scam where the fraudster builds friendship or romance over weeks before introducing a fake investment.Crypto investment scamA scammer promises high, low-risk returns through a fake crypto platform or 'expert' to take your money.

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How do I check a Romance Message message for scams?

Paste the Romance Message message into the checker on this page. It runs in your browser and shows the red flags, what the message is likely trying to do, and safe next steps.

Is it safe to paste a Romance Message message here?

Yes. The message is analysed on your device and is not stored or sent to a server by default. Sensitive details are masked before analysis.

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