Romance or emotional pressure
A new online contact builds a fast, intense connection, then asks for money or to 'invest' together.
Example only - do not act on it
Example only: I care about you so much - please help me with money for an emergency, and keep it between us.
Why scammers use this
Emotional attachment lowers your guard. Once trust is built, requests for money or investments feel reasonable.
What to do
- Be cautious with anyone you've only met online.
- Never send money to someone you haven't met.
- Talk to a friend or family member you trust.
What not to do
- Do not send money or gifts.
- Do not invest because a romantic contact suggested it.
- Do not keep the relationship secret from everyone.
How to verify safely
Hang up and call the person back on their known number, or check with another family member; a familiar voice or face is no longer proof.
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How fast do romance scams move?
Often quickly - intense affection early on, then a financial request. Speed and secrecy are warning signs.