Pig-butchering and romance investment scams
Pig-butchering scams build a romantic or friendly relationship over weeks, then steer you into a fake crypto or investment platform.
Quick answer: A new online friend or partner who introduces you to a 'great investment' is the classic pig-butchering pattern.
How pig-butchering and romance investment scams work
Contact starts with a 'wrong number', dating match, or friendly DM and builds genuine-feeling trust over days or weeks.
Once invested in the relationship, you're guided to a fake trading platform showing small early 'profits'.
When you try to withdraw, fees and blocks appear - the platform and profits were never real.
Common opening lines
- “Sorry, wrong number! But you seem nice - I do crypto trading.”
- “Let me help you invest so we can build our future together.”
- “Just start small to see it works, then we grow it together.”
Example patterns
Sanitised examples - placeholders only, never real links or data.
Example only: Wrong number! But you seem nice - I do crypto trading, want me to show you?
Example only: I care about your future - let me help you invest.
What the scammer wants
- Escalating investment deposits
- Your trust, built over time
- Withdrawal 'fees' for fake profits
Where it spreads
Platforms: Dating app, WhatsApp, SMS
Watch especially in: United States, United Kingdom, India
Red flags
- romance
- investment
- too good
- emotional
What to do now
- Pause and verify with the person directly on a known number.
- If money moved, contact your bank immediately.
- Report it and keep the messages as evidence.
What not to do
- Don't pay under pressure, secrecy, or emotional urgency.
- Don't send money or gift cards based on a voice, video, or story alone.
- Don't keep it secret - check with someone you trust first.
If you already responded
If you went further: if you clicked, don't enter anything and change any details you typed; if you entered card details, freeze the card with your bank; if you shared an OTP, change the password and enable app-based 2FA; if you paid, contact your bank or provider immediately; if you installed an app or gave remote access, disconnect, uninstall, and change passwords from a clean device.
How to verify safely
Be very cautious with anyone you've only met online who raises investing; verify platforms independently and never invest on a stranger's advice.
How to report
Report through official channels you find yourself - never a number or link from the message. Tell your bank or payment provider if money moved, and file with your national fraud or cybercrime body. Find the right links in the reporting directory. Open the reporting directory.
Watch for 'recovery' offers afterwards: anyone promising to get your money back for an upfront fee is running a second scam.
Related scam messages you can check
- wrong-number crypto investment message Likely scam
- pig-butchering romance investment message Likely scam
- romance emergency money message Likely scam
Related platforms
Report in your country
Related red flags
Emergency guides
Related terms
Sources checked
- Huntress - Pig butchering scam: signs, examples & protection
- FBI IC3 - Senior US officials impersonated in malicious messaging campaign (2025)
Frequently asked questions
My online partner wants me to invest - safe?
No. A romantic interest steering you into crypto investing is the core of pig-butchering. Stop and verify independently.
Last reviewed: 2026-06-05
This is general safety information, not legal, financial, or cybersecurity incident-response advice. We can't detect every scam or guarantee recovery - always verify through official channels.