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Red flag

Romance-to-investment shift

An online relationship that, after building trust, steers you toward a 'great' crypto or investment opportunity.

Why it matters

This is the core of pig-butchering: the relationship is the setup for a fake investment platform.

Example only - do not act on it

Example only: Let me help you invest so we can build our future.

Why scammers use this

Emotional investment makes financial advice from a 'partner' feel safe.

What to do

  • Slow down and verify the person through a separate, known channel.
  • Agree and use a family secret word for emergencies.
  • Never send money or gift cards based on a voice, video, or story alone.

What not to do

  • Don't act on urgency or secrecy.
  • Don't keep an 'emergency' secret from other family.
  • Don't pay before verifying.

How to verify safely

Hang up and call the person back on their known number, or check with another family member; a familiar voice or face is no longer proof.

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Frequently asked questions

My online partner suggests investing - safe?

No. A romantic interest steering you into crypto is the heart of pig-butchering. Stop and verify independently.

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