Is this pig-butchering romance investment message a scam?
Commonly seen since 2023. Last reviewed 2026-06-05.
Check your exact messageExample only - do not act on it
Example only: I care about your future - let me help you invest so we can build our life together.
Why this message is suspicious
- Romance plus investment ('let's build a future') is the pig-butchering signature.
- Small early 'profits' encourage bigger deposits.
- Withdrawals get blocked once you've invested heavily.
What the scammer wants
- Larger and larger deposits into a fake trading or investment platform
- Your trust, built over days/weeks, before the big 'opportunity'
- Fees to 'withdraw' profits that don't actually exist
Common variations
- Example only: I made great profits this week; I'll show you how on my platform.
- Example only: Just start small to see it works, then we grow it together.
Red flags to watch for
What to do now
- Stop sending money or signing anything, and leave the chat/group.
- Only use regulated, registered platforms you researched independently; ignore unsolicited 'opportunities', signal groups, and anyone you met through a wrong-number or dating-app chat.
- Crypto transfers are usually irreversible, so act fast: report to the exchange/platform and your national cybercrime authority, and stop all further payments.
What not to do
- Do not believe screenshots of profits or other members' 'gains'.
- Do not send more money to withdraw a balance you can see on screen.
- Do not move the conversation to a private app to invest.
If you already responded
Act quickly - the sooner you respond, the more you can limit. Find the situation that matches what you did:
If you clicked a link: Don't connect your wallet or enter your seed phrase anywhere.If you connected a wallet, move remaining funds to a new wallet you create offline.Revoke token approvals and treat the old wallet as compromised.
If you paid: Report to the exchange/platform immediately - they may freeze funds if you're fast.File a report with your national cybercrime authority with wallet/transaction IDs.Do not pay more to 'unlock' or 'recover' funds; that money is gone or fake.
If you shared a code, OTP, or login: Never share a code, password, or seed phrase with anyone.If you shared exchange login details, change them and enable app-based 2FA now.Move funds to a secured account/wallet if you suspect access was given.
If you only clicked the link but entered nothing: close the page, don't enter anything, and watch the linked accounts for unusual activity. Full steps →
If you entered card details: contact your bank now to freeze the card and dispute charges, then watch your statement. Full steps →
If you shared an OTP or one-time code: the scammer may be logging in right now - change the password, sign out other sessions, and turn on app-based 2FA. Full steps →
If you sent money: contact your bank or payment provider immediately to try to stop or recall it, and report it. Full steps →
If you installed an app / gave remote access: disconnect from the internet, uninstall it, and change key passwords from a different, trusted device. Full steps →
If you shared passport, ID, or KYC documents: watch for identity theft, consider a credit freeze or fraud alert, and keep the evidence. Full steps →
Watch out for a second scam. People who've just lost money are often contacted again by a fake "recovery" service promising to get it back for an upfront fee. Legitimate recovery never starts with a fee paid to someone who contacted you - see recovery scams.
First time dealing with this? Start with the first 24 hours after a scam checklist and how to save evidence.
How to verify safely
Only use regulated, registered platforms you researched independently; ignore unsolicited 'opportunities', signal groups, and anyone you met through a wrong-number or dating-app chat.
How to report it
Report through official channels for your country. Use our scam reporting directory to find the right authority, and never use phone numbers or links from the suspicious message itself. If an official link looks outdated, tell us so we can review it.
Official sources checked
- Huntress - Pig butchering scam: signs, examples & protection High reliability
Cybersecurity blog
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Law-enforcement alert
Reviewed 2026-06-05. See our methodology for how we select sources.
Related pages
- Pig butchering scam
- Crypto investment scam
- Recovery scam
- What to do if you sent crypto to a scammer
- What to do if you sent money to a scammer
- How to save scam evidence
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Frequently asked questions
My online partner wants me to invest - safe?
No. A romantic interest steering you into crypto investing is the core of pig-butchering. Stop and verify independently.