Keep this secret
You're told not to tell anyone - your bank, family, or the police - about the request.
Why it matters
Secrecy isolates you from the people who would spot the scam and stop you.
Example only - do not act on it
Example only: Don't tell anyone - handle this quietly.
Why scammers use this
Scams fail when a victim checks with someone, so they demand silence.
What to do
- Slow down and verify the person through a separate, known channel.
- Agree and use a family secret word for emergencies.
- Never send money or gift cards based on a voice, video, or story alone.
What not to do
- Don't act on urgency or secrecy.
- Don't keep an 'emergency' secret from other family.
- Don't pay before verifying.
How to verify safely
Hang up and call the person back on their known number, or check with another family member; a familiar voice or face is no longer proof.
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Why insist on secrecy?
Because telling someone would expose the scam. A demand for secrecy is itself a major warning sign.