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Romance Scam

A scam that builds a fake romantic relationship to ask for money or help with 'emergencies'.

How it appears in scam messages

Romance scams build an online relationship to ask for money or steer you into investing. Excuses prevent meeting, and emotional trust makes requests feel safe.

Example only - do not act on it

Example only: I care about you - I just need help with an emergency right now.

Why it matters

It exploits emotion, causing painful financial and personal harm.

Common red flags

  • Unexpected contact creating urgency or fear
  • Requests for codes, passwords, payment, or personal details
  • Links or attachments you did not expect
  • Sender or domain that does not match the real organisation

Safe next steps

  • Stop and verify through official channels you find yourself
  • Never share codes, passwords, or card details from a message
  • Use the message checker if you are unsure
  • Report and block the sender

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Frequently asked questions

How can I avoid romance scam?

Slow down, never act on urgency, and verify through official apps or websites you open yourself. Use the free checker if a message seems off.

What if I have already been affected?

Contact your bank or the relevant provider through official channels, change any exposed passwords from a trusted device, and save evidence. See our recovery guides.

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